Agreed. An OP just remember, it’s YOUR (and your fiancé’s) wedding. Ideally, you only get one. Don’t feel guilty for his tantrum over you choosing happiness on your big day. I’m just starting wedding planning and in a similar tough situation with inviting my dad or not. At least personally, I need a reminder every now and then that it’s not my job as the bride to be to accommodate every guest if it’ll sacrifice my joy