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i’m so pissed my brother won’t come to my wedding because i told him that his girlfriend was not welcome, she’s literally an awful human being and i want absolutely nothing to do with her
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Anonymous 6w

I would tell him that he only has one sister and if he chooses his girlfriend over you then he’s made his decision about yalls relationship. Then you shut cut ties with him

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Anonymous 6w

I understand both sides

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Anonymous 6w

Honestly I think his choice is valid

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6w

Agreed. An OP just remember, it’s YOUR (and your fiancé’s) wedding. Ideally, you only get one. Don’t feel guilty for his tantrum over you choosing happiness on your big day. I’m just starting wedding planning and in a similar tough situation with inviting my dad or not. At least personally, I need a reminder every now and then that it’s not my job as the bride to be to accommodate every guest if it’ll sacrifice my joy

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 6w
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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6w

It’s not bait but okay 😭 your partner should come first only after your children 🤷‍♀️ no matter if your sister thinks they’re a bad person or not

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 6w

Thinking it’s best to choose a girlfriend that your family doesn’t like over attending your own sister’s one and only wedding is insanity ngl

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6w

I don’t think so. I would be very unhappy with my bf if he went to a wedding I was purposefully not invited to. If he’s serious about his relationship, then he has every right in the world to choose her over the sister.

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