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have yall ever been with someone who’s type wasn’t you?
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Anonymous 4w

because that’s the situation i’m in rn and i’m not coping well 😬

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Anonymous 4w

yes and it was so draining because he’d make it obvious i wasn’t his type

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Anonymous 4w

no imma protect my mental health 🤞

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Anonymous 4w

umm no? that’s such a waste of time. i am only available to men who don’t play about me. men who put in effort. men who worship the ground i walk on. the energy from someone who is genuinely into you vs someone who is not is night and day. if he’s with you and you’re not his type, he’s just settling and probably using you until he finds someone he’s actually attracted to. don’t be a placeholder.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

he doesn’t make it obvious at all and he actually denied it for a while but idk just knowing it has me freaking out a little

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

but i’m so sorry that happened to you, like he shouldn’t have even been with you then

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 4w

idk. i know he’s attracted to me. i’m just not his exact type. ik ppl can be attracted to people who aren’t their type but it’s just bothering me that i don’t perfectly fit it

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

why do you care so much? is he your boyfriend? bc if he treats you well and is attracted to you, it shouldn’t matter. if he’s just someone you are casually dating and sleeping with, you should know that men will sleep with you even if you aren’t their type. also, how do you know you’re not his type? did he admit it and directly say that? maybe you’re overthinking things?

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 4w

he’s only been with girls who are his type (two girls but still) and he denied it at first or was like yeah that’s my type but so are (ppl who look like me) but then he finally admitted it the other day. i care because i feel like im not good enough i guess? like he’ll always wish i look different, or if i did look different he would like me more

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