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Hey I need some advice, this guy just asked if I wanted to watch a horror movie with him and I just have this feeling that I’m gonna get there and hes just gonna want to hook up. Do i tell him now i dont hook up? Or would that make it arkward?
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Anonymous 1d

tell him that you only wanna watch the movie, u don’t wanna do anything sexual. if he gets defensive then he was def going to do something, if he says “we’ll see what happens” then decline his offer, if he says yeah that’s fine then in person he tries something you’re not okay with just get up and leave. bring pepper spray with u or a knife, tuck it in ur bra, he shouldn’t be feeling there anyways if you don’t want him to yk. always stay safe! have a friend track ur location as well ❤️

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Anonymous 1d

It doesn’t hurt to set the boundary right now!

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Anonymous 1d

Ngl I’d tell them through text

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Anonymous 1d

Establish your expectations and see how he reacts

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Anonymous 18h

Set your boundaries and pay attention to how he reacts that will tell you a lot!!

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1d

i’ve told plenty of guys i don’t wanna do anything sexual and yes it made the date go dry but im clear abt setting boundaries and the right guy will not let it affect the date or time you spend together, if he makes it awkward or keeps bringing it up then thats a red flag and run

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