The creative outlet thing is so interesting to me bc I do think that’s a piece of it. Like I’ve met so many men who’ve never CREATED anything or believe they can’t. Like even playing Minecraft is a struggle post-dragon. Only consuming can’t be good for u.
the average man thinks therapy is a waste. before they’ve even tried it. and they don’t journal, meditate, have a creative outlet, etc. and you expect me to believe these people are mature enough to marry?