Is it weird that I don’t like going out with friends because they get more male attention and numbers than I? So I don’t go because I want all the attention?
Honestly the ones that get it, get it. The ones that don’t, don’t
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Anonymous13w
why are you so desperate for male attention 💀
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Anonymous13w
i would get crazy jealous of anyone and everyone until i got an angel of a bf and finally got enough attention/validation from him and now idc how much attention someone gets
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Anonymous13w
Maybe like compartmentalize when you’re going out alone to be hit on v. when you’re trying to have fun with your friends? I feel like worrying about who is getting the most attention when you’re out with your friends would be really unpleasant and draining
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Anonymous13w
Why do you want your friends to suffer as much as you do
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Anonymous13w
What makes you not get attention?
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Anonymous#213w
You’re right I should go out alone instead of with them. When I go out it’s for males attention and not for them
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AnonymousOP13w
I was trying to be gentle but tbh straight to therapy, do not pass go, do not collect $200
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Anonymous#213w
Therapy won’t work sadly
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AnonymousOP13w
how do you know
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Anonymous#513w
Because I never get it
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Anonymous#613w
Not that I want them to suffer I’m just tired of suffering
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AnonymousOP13w
Which I why I’ll just distance myself away I would never wish bad on the next person but I hate being jealous
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AnonymousOP13w
this is not a good mentality to have. this will cause you to not have any friends and be lonely in life. please get help.
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Anonymous#413w
It’s ok I’m already mentally lonely
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AnonymousOP13w
When I’m with my friends I feel alone anyways I don’t enjoy the moment
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AnonymousOP13w
so you don’t want to improve your mental health? i’m lost. that’s not good
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Anonymous#413w
you can lead a horse to water but you can’t make him drink 💔
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Anonymous#413w
I promise you I don’t think help with work I already tried. They only care about if I’m suicidel not my mental health 🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽
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Anonymous#113w
true true
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Anonymous#713w
I’m not a pretty girl
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AnonymousOP13w
what makes you not pretty or at least interesting enough to have a conversation
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Anonymous#713w
How do I know?
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AnonymousOP13w
Idk guys opinion on me. But maybe my facial acne
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Anonymous#813w
You’re right. I’ll never get the attention I want
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AnonymousOP13w
Just to clear up what I meant. I mean the girls saying your post is weird is the ones that get hit on and not the friends that just sit there and watch. I wasn’t trying to attack you🫶
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Anonymous#813w
Idk I made it all the way through high school and graduated college and have never been hit on one in my life
And I still think this post is weird. Friends support friends
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Anonymous#613w
was just about to say this. still a virgin and have never been in a relationship at almost 23
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Anonymous#913w
See this is what I want
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AnonymousOP13w
Not men drooling down my back but that special someone , but I never get approached by any guy to get that special person
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AnonymousOP13w
one day your special person will trusttt
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Anonymous#913w
Okay🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽
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AnonymousOP13w
Yeah the post wasn’t about having men to sleep or hookup with it’s about me having a special someone who approaches me and find me attractive