
what scares me the most is the people who do not give a fuck about becoming totally not in control of their bodies. i drink occasionally (maybe once a month?) and as soon as i get tipsy i need to stop because i never want to experience of not being completely in control of my actions
As someone who grew up with family who didn’t drink (religious reasons), and who now socially drinks, it is WILD how pushed it gets in friend groups. I was on antibiotics during Halloweekend and an acquaintance didn’t understand why I didn’t just drink on them :/ I’m sad to see how big addictions (drinking, sports betting, and vaping) have gotten in our generation over the past 10 years
I care bc it’s a problem that affects tons of young adults, my friends and myself included?? I’m not lobbying for a ban on alcohol, but this generation’s “drinking culture” is just borderline alcoholism that’s made to seem like and be accepted as normal. You’re allowed to enjoy drinking, but many people don’t know where to draw the line bc overconsumption isn’t seen as alarming anymore
That’s how you see not how everybody else is it personally I believe that if somebody wants to do something they’re going to do it regardless of what anybody else has that’s why I believe I give you truly wanna stop you have to want it for yourself because if you don’t want to put yourself then it’s never gonna happen
I don’t disagree that choosing sobriety is a personal decision, and you yourself have to want it if that’s what you mean, but that’s not exactly the point I’m trying to make. I didn’t make this post to shame anybody or tell anyone that they HAVE to choose sobriety, but if the culture wasn’t so normalized, a lot less people would even have to make that choice, that’s all
Personally, I don’t think you should be speaking in general because that might be your perception of it, but in reality it’s not I know plenty of people around me that do not drink and I don’t force them to drink or sit on them for not drinking. And same goes for me like if I don’t wanna drink my friends are not gonna make me drink or shit on me because I don’t wanna drink.