Point being he lied to me about. For years. For no fucking reason. We had a very open relationship at this point in time and had agreed to talk about it before seeing anyone else, use protection, and get tested. He did none of those things. He KNOWINGLY had sex with me in the same fuckin day that he had sex with two others. And he didn’t just do it once but over the course of a whole summer. And he fucking lied.
he did not use one for the other two which is an awesome way to spread std’s. Again even if they weren’t together it is very easy to understand how someone would feel gross/violated learning someone had sex with 2 other people the same day before them and kept that info to themselves, she was just one of his list of conquests for the day id be pissed too
it’s one thing if he’s using protection and getting tested… it’s another thing to hide it from someone. not telling someone the people you slept with is fine, what’s not fine is hiding things. idc what someone’s body count is UNLESS they hide stuff and/or don’t get tested which is the problem here. there’s nothing to be confused on.