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Is there anything i should know before being a roommate?
I go to my school yak asking questions as a first time student and all people did was make fun of me and call me lazy for not contacting my roommates. Like idk maybe i don’t know because this is my first time 😭😭 My move in day today feels ruined 😔
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Anonymous 5w

Keep to your side, you will make a roommate contract and layout how you want your lives to flow together, keep the trash clean and out, suggest a floor cleaning routine it will get dirty in winter, agree to get dinner together at least once a week, don’t sit around the fastest way to make a friend in them is to go do smth together, grocery shop, event, etc. invite them out with your friends, don’t bring personal habits from home into the room you are living communal now like shower singing

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Anonymous 5w

if you have contraband don’t tell them until they’re friends and def don’t tell them where it is and keep moving its hiding place

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Anonymous 5w

good advice here, the only thing i would emphasize is that roommate contract and going in depth about who will do what chores. some things to consider: how long of a notice do each of you need before a guest is brought over? when is “lights out”? how often should communal spaces be cleaned?

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Anonymous 5w

mine is sorta the opposite from #1, you’re not obligated to spend time with your roommate imo. I think it’s important to get to know them and befriend them, but you don’t have to be best friends or go out with them all the time if you don’t want to. I definitely recommend you sit down with all of them and go over your roommate agreement, just to talk about people’s habits and quiet hours, and what not. Just remember to be mindful, and remember that you’re all using that same space. Keep it clean

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Anonymous 5w

remember that they’re people too and could have something going on that’s you don’t know about, super important!!

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

This is great to know!!! Thank you :)

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

Of course of course. Always give the benefit of the doubt. But i also need to remember to not be a doormat and not let people just straight up disrespect me

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

I bought a lock box and said it’s for my medicine but it’s actually contraband

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 5w

obviously don’t be a dick to them either but it’s ok to have boundaries with roomies

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 5w

I like the different opinion. I’ll remember this too. I’m a bit of an introvert anyways so it might take me a while to make friends. But i do enjoy talking and i don’t wanna overwhelm them so i might be a bit quite for the first couple of days

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

I’m sure you’ll be ok :) also try to join a club or something too, those have built in friends sometimes! You got this!! I recommend getting to know your roommates when you move in also

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 5w

Thank you and i will :)

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