Anonymous OP 8w

Not attracted to me strictly because of my small chest and that if they were bigger then they’d like me. I understand that’s their problem and not mine but it’s still hurtful. Someone also once told me that the only people who would ever like me would be pdfiles (if yk what i mean) bc my chest is so small. It’s so hurtful even though I KNOW it’s not true. I’m just so done with not being treated like a mature adult and looking so different from other women just because of my boobs.

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Anonymous #1 8w

No I’m pretty average weight I think. I’m skinny which I guess is also a factor idk but I’m 5’4 and I fluctuate between like 115 and 120.

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Anonymous mother_russia 8w

Does your mother have small boobs as well? Because it might just be genetics and you might not be able to do anything naturally to fix it.

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Anonymous mother_russia 8w

She does but hers are noticeably bigger than mine though. Like she had bras she had to get rid of after she had me because her chest got smaller after her milk dried up. I know she was spilling out of a B cup before she had me because I’ve had this conversation with her before abt my boobs bc I tell her everything haha

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Anonymous mother_russia 8w

I’ve heard about the chest exercises but I’m honestly scared that they’ve just make me look bulky 😭 do they work for you?

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Anonymous #3 8w

I mean I know it’s normal but it’s kind of hard to explain that mine are considerably smaller than what you would envision on a girl our size.

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Anonymous #4 8w

2/2 you need to wear clothes that fit YOU instead of trying to make yourself fit clothes. if some clothes just doesn’t work, don’t try to make it work, just move into the next. so so many women have small boobs, but ur probably so fixated on the ones that don’t that you miss that. boobs aren’t what make a woman, and there are many other features on our bodies that are feminine. try to pay more attention to those instead of your chest, and then one day your chest won’t seem like such a big deal

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Anonymous OP 8w

Personally, I don’t have smaller boobs, but I’ve definitely heard positive things about working out. Do you know if your mom hit a second puberty type thing? Because it might just be a year or two type thing before they grow on their own.

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Anonymous #4 8w

Oh my god you’re amazing. I feel exactly how you do one some days, like secure, carefree, confident, and knowing that I’m beautiful the way I am. Plenty of people at college have been attracted to me and that helps as well. Other times like right now though, the insecurity deep down just eats me alive and makes me feel awful. How did you overcome that? ❤️❤️

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Anonymous mother_russia 8w

I go to the gym a lot so I’ll definitely try! Thanks for that advice! Idk about the second puberty but I’ll definitely ask bc girl I need a miracle lol 😭❤️

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Anonymous OP 8w

You could see if your body just isn’t producing much estrogen, and taking supplements that help your body’s estrogen production could help your boob growth but if your levels are already good then it won’t be very helpful.

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Anonymous mother_russia 8w

You’re like a more positive version of Google that is actually helpful instead of telling me I have a chronic disease. You’re awesome, thanks so much!! 😊

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Anonymous mother_russia 8w

#3 just blocked me??? 😭 I didn’t even say anything to her

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Anonymous mother_russia 8w

Idk anything abt that 🤷🏻‍♀️😭 the one sided beef is crazy ig ??

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Anonymous OP 8w

i’m hear for you girl🫂 i definitely relate. it’s been a process but i think acceptance was the biggest thing. i stopped hoping they would one day grow more and realized they won’t, and this is my body. giving up on trying to change them made me realize they don’t need to be changed. and as much as i’d rather not admit this, people being attracted to me and my boobs has helped a lot. but so has buying bras and bikinis that fit, and realizing there are other things that make me feel sexy

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Anonymous OP 8w

I’m glad I could help! Ultimately, you might not be able to do much to change your cup size naturally but what could be helpful for your body image is to specifically look for mature clothing on people with similar body types. Styles specifically made to flatter your body can really help you envision yourself in the vibe you want to have without making you feel like you need to change something about yourself

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Anonymous #4 8w

*here omg😭 it’s late

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Anonymous mother_russia 8w

Yeah! I’ve changed my style up since high school it look more mature and it definitely works! Thank you for taking so much time to help me feel better and give me genuine advice, I just know you are the biggest girls girl out there. I appreciate you so much!

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Anonymous #4 8w

i also remember going to the doctor once and asking if my boobs would grow, since the other women in my family had bigger ones than me. she said most likely no, and it’s probably genetic, and i might’ve inherited it from a great great grandmother or something. at first i was so mad that i lost the lottery and then i found comfort in knowing that another woman in my lineage probably looked like me. and i wouldn’t think of her as less of a woman, so why should i think of myself that way?

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Anonymous OP 8w

Aw thank you! I hope you find the right thing to help!

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Anonymous #4 8w

That’s such a sweet way to think about it! I love that

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Anonymous #4 8w

That’s okay, the spelling errors go crazy at 2 am lol. Thank you so much! I never tho guy hunt about it in like a heritage way. You’re so right. If other women with really small chests can be empowered then so can I. You’re an inspiration girl. You truly just inspired me that was insaneeee. I’m so grateful for your time and generosity ❤️❤️

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Anonymous mother_russia 8w

Honestly empowerment from you girls might be all I need 😊

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Anonymous OP 8w

all bodies are different! honestly sometimes i think mine look disproportionate but if i really wanted to fix that i would need a $15k boob job and i don’t have that money nor the time to follow through with that. yk?

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Anonymous OP 8w

aw i’m so glad :)) it will get better, it just takes time. i still struggle sometimes but i also like the way my body looks. i don’t think 16 year old me would ever believe i’d say that but i’m 20 now and it’s true. it can be true for you too, just give yourself grace as you navigate all those feelings

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Anonymous #5 8w

Thank you so much girl!!! ❤️❤️ I agree tho because like I’m bi and I’ve never even noticed the size of a girl’s chest that I’ve found attractive. Like it doesn’t matter to me yk? Idk what it is but I hate it on MY body but ig that’s just a personal thing.

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