Anonymous #1 1w

whether you do or don’t is irrelevant to the conversation at the end of the day societal dynamics effect us all especially as subjects of misogyny. I don’t feel bad at all I feel bad for the women trying to resist oppression. misplaced sympathy is part of how we got here

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Anonymous OP 1w

I think I’m confused on what your getting at? Especially with the last two sentences?

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Anonymous OP 1w

I think either way ppl are going to engage in whether they want to or not. I acknowledge that’s an individual choice, I was just expressing sadness for ppl who had negative experiences but didnt really know how to navigate it because they attached to partners or situationships who don’t really treat them well but still want that validation anyway

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Anonymous #1 1w

I guess. I have way better uses for my sadness than women who can’t stand up 😂

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Anonymous OP 1w

Idk I feel like you’re trying to make me feel weird for expressing sympathy for other people? It’s more so sadness at the way patriarchy impacts women to the extent that they’d rather entertain bad situations than prioritize other things. But I guess you’re moral superior because you don’t care right?

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Anonymous #1 1w

sorry women with low self esteem don’t pull my heart strings. nor were they the focus of this post. I don’t even want to begin to try to figure out your angle. I’m good. 😂 like I just said my empathy is reserved for women who are fighting misogyny. simple.

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Anonymous OP 1w

I don’t have an angle. I don’t even participate in causal sex, I’m just focusing on how systems impact the way that women show up bc individual blame isn’t going to dismantle patriarchy but anyway

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Anonymous #1 1w

and again don’t get your angle because it indeed is every individual’s responsibility to resist patriarchy just like you can denounce racism as it comes. if you’re befriending, sleeping with, procreating with the racist yes you are 100% liable for individual blame.

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