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Honestly I can’t take this anymore. I’m at the point now where I can’t imagine a future where I’m loved romantically, even remotely. And I can’t continue if that’s what I’m supposed to expect. It’s so obvious that I’m worthless to all men.
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Anonymous 1w

Never ONCE has a man interacted with me in a way that could mean he was interested. I’ve never had a boyfriend. No man has crushed on me, not since the 6th grade. I’m almost fucking 21. How is it that I can make friends, and people seem to care about me, but never enough to like me in that way? I know why. It’s because I’m fucking ugly. It’s not because I’m quiet or insecure, because quiet and insecure girls still find love. No. It has to be my looks. So FUCK all of my friends who try to-

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Anonymous 1w

I’m sorry sweet pea 😞❤️in the same boat as you but I’m 23.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

- tell me that I’m beautiful. You’re fucking lying. At this point, someone should have at least made some sort of advance toward me. But the confusing part is, I know I’m not the ugliest girl to ever exist. I’m decently average. But I guess still ugly and unloveable enough to not be lusted over. God forbid I want that. God forbid I want to be like every other girl my age. I’m deprived of romance and there’s no end in sight.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

And don’t try to tell me “you have to go to them first.” NO. First of all, I’m not interested in being humiliated. Second, if other girls can have guys come up to them to ask for their number or even just subtly flirt, then I should be able to have that too. There’s no reason I should have to do any different. Also, what in the fucking world makes you think I have the confidence for that? My friends say this to me. And of course they think that I can just got up to a guy like that, but no.—

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

— The ONLY reason they could do such a thing themselves is because they they had been in previous relationships and situationships that made it so that they already knew they were capable of being loved romantically. Of someone finding them attractive. I have no such evidence. No reason to believe that going up to a man would ever go well for me.

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