Girl Talk on Yik Yak | Guys I need to know if I’m overreacting! SO one of my friends called her bf today and asked if he wanted to come hang out with me and her since they won’t get to see each other until next week and he was being really uncharacteristic (more in comments)

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Guys I need to know if I’m overreacting! SO one of my friends called her bf today and asked if he wanted to come hang out with me and her since they won’t get to see each other until next week and he was being really uncharacteristic (more in comments)

Anonymous 11w

She is turning 21 in October and he’s 26. She called him to ask if he wanted to come hang out with us (literally me and her) but the first time it rang a few times then went to voicemail even though he had said they could call. He called her back a minute later and said he wanted to let it ring. He was also being really icky like saying he would put her on DND because she said she would blow up his phone (he claimed he was tired and wouldn’t be able to talk later), she said he felt off and he

Anonymous 11w

Now coming to the conclusion that it’s not my relationship to hold grudges and be this pressed over. I don’t want him to hurt her but whatever will happen will happen regardless of ,y feelings about it so I’m gonna keep it to myself

Anonymous

OP 11w

Said he’s just had a lot of time to think and “it’s not you it’s me” but in the same breath “it’s not about our relationship it’s ok” (they called later and he said he puts in “a lot of effort to see her and she cancels on him when she has other stuff to do” so it literally was about your relationship. He was making excuses to not come hang out and was then throwing a fit about not coming to hang out. He also eventually said something about wanting to see her (I guess alone since I would’ve been

Anonymous

OP 11w

There and he said he was worried it might be weird). She gave him chances to see her, but he clearly doesn’t need to see her alone all the damn time if they just went on a trip with her sister and her sisters bf. Just a lot of icky, off-putting off-vibey things, we both felt it once they hung up I just don’t think I’m explaining it the best.

Anonymous

OP 11w

THE ISSUE IS I don’t think I want to meet him anymore ever now after this. Like if he thought it would be weird today it will definitely be weird now that I’ve heard that. Even if he was upset about her cancelling on him, bitch you’re 26. You understand that life happens. She can’t just drop everything when you fucking call. That also doesn’t give you the right to be bitchy and cancel plans with her (forgot to say they, they were supposed to be meeting on Saturday and be cancelled because he was

Anonymous

OP 11w

Upset) or just being passive aggressive and not communicating. Again, you’re 26. If you felt that way and you could talk about it while she was alone why they hell didn’t you start with that and spare the hard feelings? And idk I don’t think that was the real reason. I think he’s mad he can’t see her alone everytime he wants. Like why the hell would he say it’s gonna be weird when I meet him if he doesn’t have anything for me to be weird about unless he wanted to be all up on her. Which again, y

Anonymous

OP 11w

YOURE 26 why do you need to be all up on your girl 24/7. And unfortunately I hold grudges so I don’t think I’m gonna be able to let this go. Like just be honest and communicate at your big age and don’t talk to my girl like that tf. OH AND he immediately went back to being nice over text as soon as they hung up like what the fuck? Yeah I def don’t want to meet him. Am I being dramatic before I tell if, if I even tell her at all?

Anonymous

OP 11w

Also there’s nothing wrong with being 26, I would just think if you took time to work on yourself like you said you would be able to not play games and express your feelings at that age…. Acting like we’re in fucking high school are you kidding me?