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what is it with “men” nowadays wanting to be chased. they want a man themselves so bad, this generation is so fucked 😂
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Anonymous 2w

I hear it’s mostly because women have expressed that they don’t like being chased

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Anonymous 2w

literally what do they bring to the table if they're not gonna actively court me in the beginning of dating? i'm perfectly fine being single if they aren't gonna put in the work to date me because i know how much i can give in a relationship 💃

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Anonymous 2w

those are boys

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

who are these women lol, doesn’t mean men should resort to wanting to be chased 😂

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

exactly why i said “men”😂

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

I don’t really have an opinion on whether or not I want to be “chased” but I have noticed a trend of other women being against it these days, I see a lot of talk about not wanting to be approached in most public spaces and being creeped out by men who keep pursuing after being shown resistance

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2w

YES TO ALL OF THIS‼️ you’re cooking mama

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

Either way, there are still lottsss of men out there who are very adamant about chasing women they like and being socially dominant or whatever, they’re not going extinct or anything

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

i see what you mean. i think a lot of it boils down to attraction. both men and women seem to be open to being “chased” i guess if there is mutual attraction. unfortunately there’s also a lot of miscommunication that happens as a result and then it’s just a snowball of misery cause intentions were never set up. hence why a lot of people end up in situationships, etc. just people in general need to be emotionally mature and secure with themselves to be over all fine wherever they end up

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

It also doesn’t help that our society has been made to be way less social after the covid pandemic, I think a lot of people are just mentally closed off from the idea of seeking out new connections or putting themselves in uncomfortable situations

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