Girl Talk on Yik Yak | My ex broke no contact 3 times, last ones to wish me the best, and he’s going away on a pretty elusive and dangerous contract. Do I say smth before he leaves? Idk how long. I may be in AF, he doesn’t know. I think abt texting him every day tho. Help?

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My ex broke no contact 3 times, last ones to wish me the best, and he’s going away on a pretty elusive and dangerous contract. Do I say smth before he leaves? Idk how long. I may be in AF, he doesn’t know. I think abt texting him every day tho. Help?

Anonymous 15w

no don't. hit that block button girl free urself from having to re-heal all over again from talking

Anonymous 15w

evict him from ur mind even if just temporarily. every time he breaks no contact it's unfair to your own healing since it just resets the clock. give yourself actual space to heal from things and focus on your current goals

Anonymous 15w

unfortunately as a bad example, i would want to text him, im also in the same position as you 🥲 somehow tho my procrastination lifestyle has kept me from texting him too lmfao like “ok i’ll text tmrw” and then it just never happens

Anonymous

#3 15w

Girl trust me it’s hard. I go most of my day not thinking abt him at all, until I come past smth familiar between us and I’m not exactly sad at all, just miss the feeling of having idk my only friend and the one person I could talk to every day and be with all the time. And then it’s hard like ugh idk what I would even say. I left. It was bad. I needed to grow. I don’t wanna pick up where we left off like that or smth.

Anonymous

OP 15w

gosh, i’m in the exact same place, i don’t have the slightest idea of what to say which is why i put it off. he knew the most about me even more than my 20+ year friendships 🥲 you got this btw, even when it’s hard i always do think it’ll get better