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what are your thoughts on your boyfriend having girl friends
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Anonymous 12w

im a lesbian but i think it’s a green flag when guys get along with other girls and when other girls trust a guy

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Anonymous 12w

I’m bi so I would feel like a hypocrite if I limited them lol + I think it shows that they see women as more than just potential romantic partners

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Anonymous 12w

idc

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Anonymous 12w

i don’t care tbh i think girls trusting a guy is a good thing. if you don’t allow your bf to have any girl friends whatsoever you’re deeply insecure.

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Anonymous 12w

I don’t mind tbh, like it’d be hypocritical of me to have guy friends if I wouldn’t allow him to have girl friends. We still communicate who we’re hanging out with and stuff, we’re not hiding anything

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Anonymous 12w

Huge Green flag for me. I love it honestly

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Anonymous 12w

idc but unfortunately most men aren’t friends with women to be friends at this age :/ i’m just being real

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Anonymous replying to -> slutty_anakin 12w

(Most of the time of course)

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Anonymous replying to -> witchy_salem 12w

he doesn’t really gravitate towards having girl friends and the only ones he has are dating his guy friends. then there’s some in his internship he’s doing and they’re friends but the most they do is grab lunch but that’s okay 🤷🏻‍♀️ i have no reason to believe he’s cheating or being shady

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Anonymous 12w

well she just said it

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Anonymous 12w

She’s literally just answering the prompt like everyone else ???😭

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Anonymous 12w

seriously like 😭😭 i don’t care as i said but it’s definitely not a green flag, just a beige one, it doesn’t matter if they have girl friends or not.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 12w

i think people just be friends to be friends 🤷‍♀️

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Anonymous 12w

My bf had girl friends mainly when I met him and it was actually such a green flag for me. I see it as a man who is confident in his masculinity (not needing to surround himself with men constantly) and also that he saw women as people and friends rather than just someone to date or flirt with. He had no dating or flirting history with any of his girl friends too.

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Anonymous 12w

I’ve met too many guys who are only around women to date or hook up and don’t know how to exist around a woman if it’s not for that, so a man who can is a green flag to me.

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Anonymous replying to -> mother_russia 12w

pause pause pause, please tell me this is a different boyfriend from the one you posted about like last year

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Anonymous replying to -> mother_russia 12w

that’s what i meant too…unless he shows signs of it then it shows he can be friends with anyone. most men are age aren’t like that and see us as objects and that isn’t right at all.

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 12w

I posted about a bad relationship like 3 years ago if that’s what you’re thinking of and this is not the same person but it’s the same man I was dating last year

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 12w

I honestly don’t know what you would be referring to for my current bf

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Anonymous replying to -> mother_russia 12w

On period 👏

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Anonymous replying to -> pinkdrink 12w

PINK DRINK!!!! Hello!

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Anonymous replying to -> mother_russia 12w

IM BACK BITCHHH HEHE

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