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I’m so pissed I’m literally shaking. I’ve been talking to this guy for a month and it’s been perfect then this morning we get on the topic of children and he says if his wife can’t produce/ want to give him the number of kids he wants he would leave
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Anonymous 15w

the only thing to do is leave. he’s straight up telling you he’ll leave if you don’t give him 3 kids. if you don’t want that, leave

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Anonymous 15w

And at first I’m kind of like ? But he doubles down and says, “he doesn’t think that’s really crazy” and I told him that is actually insane and then I told him all of the complications with pregnancy and let’s say she has one kid and decides it’s too much on her body to have another one (he wants 3) he said he would literally leave his WIFE. Not to mention he told me he had intentions of marrying me so in my head when he said this I automatically thought about myself. Like I personally want 2

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Anonymous 15w

Kids and if I can’t give you more you would leave? He’s basically telling me he would leave me. I don’t know what to do. He’s been great until this

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 15w

That’s what I was thinking and am planning on it but it’s just so upsetting. I don’t know if it’s something worth trying to talk out. This is the first time he mentioned this

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 15w

Leave that situation please

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