Girl Talk on Yik Yak | Am I being unreasonable to be upset that my gf (I’m also a girl) chose to go to party and then decide to go to bars with her friend when I’m sick and alone and just want some to care for me a bit?

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Girl Talk 14w

Am I being unreasonable to be upset that my gf (I’m also a girl) chose to go to party and then decide to go to bars with her friend when I’m sick and alone and just want some to care for me a bit?

Anonymous 14w

i mean the feeling is valid but unless you expressed you wanted her to take care of you, it’s less fair to be mad at her for it

Anonymous 14w

imo she can go out with her friends cus ur both adults and capable of ur own care BUT i would rather be home with my gf when she’s sick

Anonymous

#1 14w

how should I bring it up with her? I feel bad

Anonymous

OP 14w

i would just tell her (once she’s not drunk) that it made you sad/upset/whatever without making it about her doing something wrong. if she’s a good partner she’ll hear you and do better next time

Anonymous

#1 14w

okay okay ty

Anonymous

#1 14w

She just said “I miss u” and litterly I started crying because I don’t belive her by her actions but ik she actually does. I hate this

Anonymous

OP 14w

yeah i got really sick a few years back and my gf wouldn’t hang out with me bc she didn’t want to get sick and i felt the same way. it just sucks all around and being sick just amplifies the sadness

Anonymous

#1 14w

Exactly but she doesn’t care ab being sick. Also, a few months ago she was rly sick and I bought foods to help and went over to her hosie

Anonymous

#2 14w

I completely know she is aloud to be with her friends. It’s just the fact that she knows I’m alone and sick and had no food that I could eat

Anonymous

OP 14w

at the very least she should’ve dropped something off for you before heading out but at least she should get the memo for next time