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Girl Talk 10w
Just again realizing how blind I was to how shitty my “friends” were. I just realized that after I mentioned my uncle had passed during the summer that no one ever gave condolences or anything. They didn’t even seem to care or notice.
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Anonymous 10w

And I’m so sorry about your uncle ❤️

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Anonymous 10w

This has happened to me to it’s hard to realize when you think they care as much as you do. Keep your head up darling there is people that will value you like you value them ❤️❤️❤️

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Anonymous 10w

This happened to me with my freshman year friends 3 years ago when I lost my grandpa, I know it sucks, it’s also a blessing in disguise because now you know who these people are and you can find friends who truly care

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Anonymous 10w

Like why did I do that to myself. Why did I basically torture myself trying to be friends with these people. They obviously didn’t like me, they actively excluded me. Yes, they would say “we’re here for you if you ever need anything” but say no every time I ask for help and ignore me when I spiraled into an anxious/depressive episode. I need to find better friends

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Anonymous 10w

the WAYY i was in this exact same position omg people suck!!!

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 10w

👏👏 also I’m sorry about your grandpa ik it’s been years but doesn’t matter how long it’s been ❤️

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 10w

It’s just unfortunate that it was all of my friends 😂 with the exception of the ones who live hours away and are super busy

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

But thank you

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 10w

I didn’t realize how much I needed to hear that ❤️

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

I promise girl I’ve been through this too and my life got soooo much better when I stopped talking to all of them, ik it’s horrible now but it’ll get better I promise!!

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 10w

Honestly, it’s already better. I’ve just been having a month

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

I’m glad it’s better ❤️❤️

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 10w

Thank you! The hardest part has just been to see my grandma struggling, she hardly knew life without him and had to learn so much of the things that he took care of for years

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

No i completely understand, it’s such a sad realization that they don’t value you as much as you do them. I’m sorry about your uncle and I hope that you have a support system ❤️

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 10w

That’s devastating, sending so much love to you and her ❤️❤️

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