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Girl Talk 14w
i lost my virginity to a hookup and i still think about it, cringe, cry, and regret it 5 yrs later
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Anonymous 14w

girl i get u, i lost mine with my bf at the time and i cringe everytime i think about any of the times we did it together 😔

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Anonymous 14w

Forgive yourself. I lost mine to an SA and had to get a rape kit and so the origins of mine are skewed. It’s not about virginity it’s about the intimacy u have with a person

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Anonymous 14w

girl me too i was 15 and lost it to a 19 year old in a tree house 😭

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Anonymous 14w

Like my husband may be the 20+ I’ve been with (was hyper specialized after my SA) I don’t even know how many people and often times I wish he was my first but other times it wasn’t matter bc if u change the smallest thing about you you never know where it would’ve lead you (butterfly effect) you’re you bc of what you’ve been through

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 14w

i’m sorry you went through that babe😔❤️ you’re so right i think i need to work more on forgiving myself so i can move on with my life

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 14w

so true!! i’m in a healthy relationship now. it shouldn’t affect me this much but i still have a lot to work on.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 14w

You’ll get there ❤️ it’s a journey even I have hard days

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 14w

men don’t deserve u queen

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 14w

i agree

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 14w

u were so young 💔 im so sorry girl dont blame yourself

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 14w

girl... 😭🙏 this the grooming they talk about, im so sorry

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