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I broke up with my bf a month ago (it wasn’t him, it was me) but I’m already like okay? I definitely miss him but I don’t cry anymore and I have begun to remember things he did that I didn’t like. Is that normal? We were together for 1.5 years
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Anonymous 9w

you may have mentally checked out before this point

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Anonymous 9w

i was with my ex for 3 years but stayed until i hated him and now it’s been 2.5 months i think and im already going out on dates and everything. i mentally broke up with him 6-7 months ago. it’s okay i promise. we all have different timelines.

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Anonymous 9w

Normal response, especially if you were the one to call it you were probably getting over the break up before the break up happened. It’s also a very common thing to look for the negative things that happened to get over a relationship/breakup faster too.

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Anonymous replying to -> smallfryspecialist27 9w

exactly! lots of women do it subconsciously

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