Anonymous #1 17h

By calling their brain small

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Anonymous OP 17h

if someone throws their life away for a man it probably is tbh

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Anonymous #1 17h

…or they just have poor trauma responses, coping mechanisms and attachment issues that need to be addressed in therapy

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Anonymous OP 17h

two things can be true at once

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Anonymous #1 17h

Most ppl aren’t stupid, they know deep down that it’s toxic and wrong. But human behavior is a lot more complicated than that. Our brains are wired to maintain connection bc we’re communal beings

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Anonymous #2 17h

Male centered women And fr birds are beautiful and intelligent creatures, why is it an insult 😭

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Anonymous OP 17h

i mean yeah lol i already agreed with you that that’s true. i just really don’t care anymore. women who feel this way and who throw their life away for men have no problem putting OTHER women in danger for male approval and to me that’s unforgivable

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Anonymous #1 17h

I guess I just have more compassion and hope that ppl can change and believe that shaming is unhelpful. I was able to change a lot when I never thought I’d be able to through twice weekly therapy for years

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Anonymous OP 16h

honestly yeah you probably do. there’s only so many times you can try to help women you care only to have that thrown in your face and have your safety threatened by the men they’re with before you stop trying. good for you!

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Anonymous #1 16h

Yeah I get that. I don’t have too many experiences with women like that bc i mostly just have one best friend. I get it

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