i have friends who have cheated, and who feel deep regret for it and acknowledge that it was wrong and have learned and grown into people who are better equipped now to navigate whatever kind of situation led to it. human nature is messy and ugly and we are all bound to do something awful at some point, but it’s how that person grows beyond their mistakes that, to me, determine whether i think they are good or bad. which is also a very messy and ugly dichotomy that’s hard to apply to people

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I do have a friend who did some things that… let’s just say I PERSONALLY would not do in a relationship. Definitely a flaw of hers but her ex was an abusive piece of shit so none of us felt bad for him at all, which I think made me a bit more forgiving

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she moved away so it’s easier not to be close friends with her but occasionally we’ll send eachother tik toks but that’s about it, i miss her a lot but i just can’t be close with someone who would do that

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i honestly don’t care that’s their bad karma and ima tell them that exactly😂😭 i’m too blunt for most people anyway 🤷🏽‍♀️ be my friend or don’t

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