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is this a safe space to say i have severe religious trauma and i’m now a full blown atheist but i still love to wear crosses… i dunno it just feels right to me and nostalgic but i hate that it makes me look like i associate with them
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Anonymous 18w

Sometimes I wear a cross necklace as an atheist, but it’s because it’s my dead grandmas and she wore it everyday. I also don’t like that it makes me look religious, I like looking like a safer space than that. But sometimes you gotta just exist as yourself ungoverned by how you’ll be perceived.

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Anonymous 18w

Do it it looks cool

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Anonymous 18w

I personally don’t believe in religion but I wear a cross necklace cause it’s cute 🤷🏽‍♀️

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Anonymous 18w

This is so real like I was raised catholic but not in like the homophobia racist way and lowkey this is the realest thing I’ve ever seen like I’m def an atheist now and like I just hate how like religion is so entangled in politics rn like god forbid a girl needs nostalgia

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Anonymous 18w

i only wear gothic crosses because those are more associated with alternative culture than actual religion atp, but it fits my style and ik it wouldn’t fit everyone

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Anonymous 18w

everytime i wanna wear a cross in a fashion sense i see my religious dad in my head looking even more disappointed at me being an atheist than he already is so i can't

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Anonymous 18w

it’s literally a shape it’s not like i’m wearing a crucifix….

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Anonymous 18w

Here’s a thought no one asked you

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Anonymous 18w

Two sticks together in a basic and predictable geometric shape. Woohoo. Big whoop. 🙄

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 18w

no fr and the cross shape doesn’t ONLY represent christianity either. also christians don’t respect atheists and a portion of them tell us we’ll go to hell for not believing so i don’t feel a huge obligation to respect them in return lmao

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 18w

see i agree the christians get REAL mad from what ive seen on social media but tbh i think its crazier to be a christian in this day and age especially as a woman. literally saw a post that a planned parenthood was shutting down and a literal church commented “come to our service this sunday if you want to celebrate” like what the FUCK

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 18w

Literally that’s the problem with like the told rn politics and religion are becoming too intertwined when there was supposed to be a separation bw church and state in the first place- it just adds to the mass polarization that our nation is now struggling with which doesn’t help anyone solve like real issues bc we’re too busy fighting eachother

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 18w

I’ve been berated and harassed (and even threatened) by christians my entire life for being Queer. The entire doctrine is incredibly toxic at its core in SO many damn ways. They can’t even agree with each other, why would I bother with that? 😂

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Anonymous 18w

yall are so fucking entitled. christians and men, every time someone says “i’ve been harmed by so many of you that i no longer trust any of you” it’s all “maybe you had that experience but you’re overreacting!! not all of us!!! you’re being so mean!!!!”

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Anonymous 18w

You can quit with the “No true Scotsman” fallacious nonsense. Guess what? Real christians can be terrible people as well. We’ve heard it all before. It’s inexcusable. Toxicity is baked into your book. It’s throughout the entire religion.

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Anonymous 18w

pov you’re a christian who got their feelings hurt by being called out

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Anonymous 18w

no, being a christian at this point is like being friends with someone who’s toxic and abusive. even if you’re not participating in the behavior, you’re enabling and showing support for it by aligning yourself with the group that does it and supporting the institution of christianity.

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Anonymous 18w

I don’t hate all christians. I hate your mythology and how it’s been used to control and harm billions of people and is continuing to do so. I’ve read a number of versions of the bible front to back and it’s an awful book when you’re not spoonfed the flowery bits.

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