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is this a safe space to say i have severe religious trauma and i’m now a full blown atheist but i still love to wear crosses… i dunno it just feels right to me and nostalgic but i hate that it makes me look like i associate with them
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Anonymous 17h

Sometimes I wear a cross necklace as an atheist, but it’s because it’s my dead grandmas and she wore it everyday. I also don’t like that it makes me look religious, I like looking like a safer space than that. But sometimes you gotta just exist as yourself ungoverned by how you’ll be perceived.

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Anonymous 13h

Do it it looks cool

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Anonymous 19h

I personally don’t believe in religion but I wear a cross necklace cause it’s cute 🤷🏽‍♀️

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Anonymous 19h

This is so real like I was raised catholic but not in like the homophobia racist way and lowkey this is the realest thing I’ve ever seen like I’m def an atheist now and like I just hate how like religion is so entangled in politics rn like god forbid a girl needs nostalgia

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Anonymous 18h

i only wear gothic crosses because those are more associated with alternative culture than actual religion atp, but it fits my style and ik it wouldn’t fit everyone

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Anonymous 20h

everytime i wanna wear a cross in a fashion sense i see my religious dad in my head looking even more disappointed at me being an atheist than he already is so i can't

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Anonymous 17h

Christian here! not to condemn you or anything but if you’re wearing a cross for fashion why don’t people wear a david’s star necklace as fashion too even if they’re not Jewish? if you don’t believe in what the message behind the cross is you shouldn’t wear it. if it’s a gothic cross though that’s fine in my opinion but obviously do what you want just putting my 2¢

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 14h

it’s literally a shape it’s not like i’m wearing a crucifix….

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9h

but it’s what it represents. a cross literally represents Christianity whether you want to believe it or not. i mean obvi do what you want, but you said yourself you don’t like how a cross has you associated with us Christians yet you’re still choosing to wear it. it’s easy to just not wear one or at least wear a gothic one but it’s your life

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 9h

Here’s a thought no one asked you

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 8h

and that is okay! 😊

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 7h

Two sticks together in a basic and predictable geometric shape. Woohoo. Big whoop. 🙄

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 5h

no fr and the cross shape doesn’t ONLY represent christianity either. also christians don’t respect atheists and a portion of them tell us we’ll go to hell for not believing so i don’t feel a huge obligation to respect them in return lmao

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 5h

see i agree the christians get REAL mad from what ive seen on social media but tbh i think its crazier to be a christian in this day and age especially as a woman. literally saw a post that a planned parenthood was shutting down and a literal church commented “come to our service this sunday if you want to celebrate” like what the FUCK

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5h

Literally that’s the problem with like the told rn politics and religion are becoming too intertwined when there was supposed to be a separation bw church and state in the first place- it just adds to the mass polarization that our nation is now struggling with which doesn’t help anyone solve like real issues bc we’re too busy fighting eachother

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