
I will NEVER date a man who already has a kid with another woman. bc all that shows me is he wants to hit it raw and doesn’t gaf what that means for me. he doesn’t gaf if I have to ruin my body, social life, career, hobbies, education, etc bc he can just see the kid every other weekend and go about his life
you have a right to your opinion, but personally i don’t see how that shows all of that. what if the relationship just didn’t work out when they thought it would, you know? like id understand more if he wasn’t present in the kids life or if he was directly showing he didnt care… but i feel like that’s a very intense way of seeing it and i just want to understand because i see things way differently