I was in pretty much the same exact situation a few years ago. First partner I’d ever lived with, together for nearly 2 years and my most serious relationship at that point. Tried to make it work, but I lost feelings and felt disgusting and embarrassed. I also developed feelings for someone else. I can proudly say I’m engaged to that someone else now, and everything’s okay. Basically, do what you feel is best for you. Don’t worry about wasted time or trying to salvage what he broke.

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girl don’t let him him disrespect you like that, being drunk isn’t an excuse and he showed you exactly where you stand in your relationship

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if it ever will be. we’ve been together for two years and i can’t picture my life without him but im so scared im falling out of love. and on top of that im developing feelings for someone else which makes me feel super guilty. this new guy has been making me feel more butterflies than i’ve felt in a while. i’m not sure if its the idea of a new person or if my heart is moving on from my current boyfriend before my brain catches up. i’m just super conflicted and unsure about everything.

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you can't control what your hearts and if that's with someone else then let it happen. you can move on even though it will be hard but you don't need any disrespect from him

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