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Maybe controversial opinion? I think doing loyalty “tests” on your partner is breaking their trust and disrespectful to the relationship
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Anonymous 5w

like why are you with your partner if you can’t trust them, like you clearly have issues and shouldn’t be in a relationship

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Anonymous 5w

It’s kinda like those people that “edge a break up” to see if their partners will be sad if they left. It’s an unnecessary test that’s a lose-lose situation because either you get the negative reaction and lose the relationship or you get the reaction you want and lose the relationship because most folks don’t want to play stupid games when it comes to their relationships.

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Anonymous 5w

For me I just feel like if you feel the need to test them then you probably have too much doubt in the relationship

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Anonymous 5w

& an immediate means to break up. No point in being together if you’ve gotta do that to him😭

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Anonymous replying to -> amethyst_popping_bottles 5w

Exactly! A relationship is built on trust and if your partner hasn’t broken it then why are you testing them???? And if they have broken your trust then why be with them? People are so confusing

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Anonymous 5w

If you ARE the original OP, atp hun its better to break up and start over. Couples therapy assuming you’re under 25? Nooooo point in that

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