No this is so real, men are just offended by woman who they’re not interested it. I would say I’m pretty attractive but maybe not so much for the male gaze. I was trying to make friends last year because I was starting college and so I was being friendly with this guy in class and he wouldn’t even look at me when I talked to him. The next week he moved seats and was chatting with the girl has switched spots for and she didn’t even seem interested in what he had to say.
also partly because in our patriarchal society and social media sphere, a woman’s value is equated to her attractiveness. men have never been held to the same beauty standards, and therefore many men don’t feel conditioned to put as much effort in their looks, so you will see more pretty women than men