Anonymous #1 12w

Yeah but at the same time this scares me, all the sudden I’m like what if I don’t wanna work, or sometimes I’m like I can afford to not be too hard on myself and not be hardcore when I’m premed but at the same time I want to be a doctor so I can’t afford that.

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Anonymous OP 12w

I was like you then we broke up and I was back to the grind

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Anonymous #2 12w

See this is also what I’m afraid of, I love my bf but if I have this mindset, do I need to break up with him, i really don’t want to.

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Anonymous OP 12w

No I’m not saying to breakup but I’m also saying go get your education and grind bc you can’t count on someone to support you and it to last forever

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Anonymous OP 12w

Make sure you don’t lose sight of your goals bc you might revert to them but embrace both aspects of yourself at the moment

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Anonymous #2 12w

Yeah I get this, I mean my parents are well a project and have an abusive relationship and my mother just won’t leave so I have attachment issues

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