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Before my bf I wanted to be a doctor I still do mostly in name and I wanna practice, but sometimes I’m like I want the soft life like pilates, yoga, being home, getting massages and nails done. Before my bf I truly was a tomboy so idk what’s happening
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Anonymous 6w

You’re embracing your femininity!! ❤️

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6w

Yeah but at the same time this scares me, all the sudden I’m like what if I don’t wanna work, or sometimes I’m like I can afford to not be too hard on myself and not be hardcore when I’m premed but at the same time I want to be a doctor so I can’t afford that.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

I was like you then we broke up and I was back to the grind

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6w

See this is also what I’m afraid of, I love my bf but if I have this mindset, do I need to break up with him, i really don’t want to.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

No I’m not saying to breakup but I’m also saying go get your education and grind bc you can’t count on someone to support you and it to last forever

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

Make sure you don’t lose sight of your goals bc you might revert to them but embrace both aspects of yourself at the moment

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6w

Yeah I get this, I mean my parents are well a project and have an abusive relationship and my mother just won’t leave so I have attachment issues

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