Anonymous #1 7w

No way 😭 all i can look at is the top of my friend's heads. It's such an odd perspective ill never get used to it makes me feel like a guy

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Anonymous #2 7w

I mainly just became very aware of it when it comes to pictures

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Anonymous #2 7w

Ok so it must be because i am insecure about my height since ppl have been saying they dont notice that stuff and they (you and some others) are taller than me. Its one of the biggest things i think about in public around other women and im literally 5'8

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Anonymous OP 7w

yeah😭 i saw u say ur 5’8, my best friend is 5’7 and i never realize our height difference until we’re in a photo or smthn

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Anonymous OP 7w

You genuinely have no reason to be insecure of your height, I promise. You’re tall sure but you’re not even that tall that anyone is probably even thinking anything of it other than you. And tall isn’t a bad thing at all, I think of myself as runway model status. You’re commercial model status.

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Anonymous #2 7w

Actually I want to go back to my main comment that I hardly realize it. That’s a lie bc I have to straight up exaggerated bend down to talk to people in loud areas so often and do think of it a lot but it’s such a part of my normal life that I really don’t think anything of it 😭

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Anonymous #2 7w

Lmao commercial model 😭 and yeah i dont really care what others think of my height too much, its just i feel genuinely uncomfortable being so big. Its most likely because the internet idealizes short petite women. Its easier to stop being insecure when you care about others opinions, but its really hard to stop it when you literally have an idea of beauty that isn't yourself 😔

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Anonymous #1 7w

Bruh i wish i was just insecure about how ppl perceive me, but i am deeply unsettled by how i look from a perfectionist mindset. I literally will always notice it until i die 🙄 why am i like this its so frustrating

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Anonymous OP 7w

Yeah I think my media is very fashion focused and I am on the thinner side so I don’t really struggle with that as much. But I do know that petite and shorter women are more “desired” in most circles and men and stuff it seems like outside of fashion. But it must be hard if you’re really focused on those things and/are plus sized and tall.

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Anonymous OP 7w

By commercial I mean like catalog, print type model 😭

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Anonymous #2 7w

Yes i honestly think its because of the media i consume. I read fantasy and romance and the mc is always short, the animes i watch the girls are perfectly built and usually small, and tiktok literally force feeds me videos of short skinny women

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Anonymous OP 7w

Tbh you sound like you just need my fyp and algorithm feeding me runway walks and tall goddesses constantly 😭

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Anonymous #3 7w

The issue is ive been tall my whole life and am 21 still struggling to feel like i fit in

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Anonymous #2 7w

Facts

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Anonymous pinky.bear 7w

Nooo find someone else because i want someone to hit me with one of those but no one is tall or strong enough to do that for me 😭😭😭

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