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can anyone offer any advice on ending a friendship with someone who has bpd/rsd? you can dm me or i’ll answer questions in comments (more context below)
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Anonymous 7w

as far as i’m aware they’re not super attached to me or anything, i just don’t mesh well with their personality at all and we have different ideas of how friendship should operate. i would say that directly but i don’t want to cause any unnecessary hurt yk?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7w

Lowkey, you could tell them that. I don’t think it would be hurtful🤷‍♀️ only if you’re comfortable with that tho. My sister has BPD and sometimes, you do have to be up front with her in the same way she is with you or else she’s not gonna change/notice anything, if that makes sense. I say talk to them, and then distance yourself as needed. You don’t have to justify not having good friend chemistry with someone

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 7w

that makes sense. i’m not the type to ghost anyone so i planned to tell them as directly as i could anyway, i just didn’t know if my phrasing came off as mean. thank you for your advice

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