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I’m fatter than my new boyfriend and I feel so fat gross and disgusting especially cause I know all his past gfs were skinny and pretty. How do I get over this insecurity?? I don’t want it to affect out relationship by my insecurity.
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Anonymous 1d

Therapy is really important

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Anonymous 1d

If he’s with you that means he’s physically attracted to you NOW. Not for how you COULD look, but for how you look now, so don’t let that idea worry you too much. As far as your insecurity about your weight— I’m sure you’re absolutely stunning. If you have any doubts about your body or anything, look up accurate art depictions of Aphrodite— she’s literally curvy and chubby and GORGEOUS. Start repeating daily affirmations— even if you don’t believe it, it will create new neuropathways

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

Damn 😔

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

in your brain that will train your mind to believe it. So literally fake it till you make it. Start those affirmations, girl!!

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

Ahhh thanks 🥺🥺🥺🫶🏽

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