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knew i had to leave my ex when i stopped feeling sexually attracted to him 😭 i still romantically loved him but he was so skinny he started looking like a little boy and id see bigger men around me and feel attracted to them so i had to leave for his sake
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Anonymous 8w

like it wouldn’t be cool of me to stay when i wasn’t sexually attracted even tho i was still in love with him cuz he wanted to fuck but i didn’t ever anymore and it just wouldn’t have worked out cuz i do like to do the do but i didn’t want him anymore

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Anonymous 8w

So is the problem that he’s skinny or that you’re fat and feeling insecure being with him?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 8w

like i was driving down the road and saw a shirtless guy on a run who was at a healthy weight and i thought he was the hottest man ive rver seen and thats when i realized. my ex was skinny in a scrawny way fhat i didnt mind at first! but i started feeling fat around him too i went from a size 8 to a 14 with him cuz hed always give me the bigger portions too

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 8w

my parents were so hard on me about finishing my food i would make myself sick sometimes and i still struggle with it today it’s become a bad habit. i feel guilty and so wasteful when i get full before my plate is empty like i just wasted money if i don’t finish it and they’d always bring up starving kids too like bro idk

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 8w

sis blaming her bf for being self conscious abt being a chunky monkey 😭😭😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 8w

when did i say that was the only reason lmao

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 8w

not just that! i genuinely just was not sexually attracted to him anymore he wasn’t hot to me anymore. regardless of my weight

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 8w

Mm I see Okay then ending it was probably the right thing to do.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 8w

that and i kept thinking about girls as a bi girl i want a lady

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 8w

can’t stay with a man when u want a woman 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 8w

Ok now there’s just a lot going on Boyfriend is skinny, you gained weight, you weren’t attracted to him, you found bigger guys attractive and nowwww you’re thinking about girls…more?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 8w

the girls was the main reason j should’ve mentioned up front lol but those were also little things that made me make my decision faster. i want to date women, not attracted to him anymore bc of the women thing, and the weight stuff for both me and him are just a little side thing. i’m bad at putting things in order of importance 😭

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