
imo, “situationships”/talking stages are only acceptable for up to a month. and that’s usually if there’s distance or other restrictions involved. i’ve you’ve been spending consistent time with a person and can’t decide if you want to make it official after a month (or the guy hasn’t), it’s run its course.
exactly cause why buy the cow if you’re getting the milk for free. it’s one thing if you just want a fwb, but it’s a whole nother when you’re just accepting a situationship because that’s the best you can get out of him… THATS the shit that’s encouraging bad behavior in men. do you know how fast they would get their act together if every bitches self esteem got high over night?? sooo quick. instead they just move on until they find a bird that will accept the breadcrumb 🥀