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genuinely curious what do to if i need to break up with a partner im living with. shared lease ends in july. i graduate college in june. when is the right time? how do i move forward?.. where do i go to stay immediately after the conversation is had? help
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Anonymous 23h

NOT looking for tough love right now as this is a touchy subject so if your advice is “just do it and move on” i’m not gonna hear you. i still love him but not IN love. he’s immature and it’s making me feel resentful. he’s picked up on it. i feel like the time is right. NOW. but i’m scared and don’t know where i’ll go

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Anonymous 23h

okay so im in the exact same position and im working on finding another place to live for next year. idk about how comfortable you are with him but im planning on helping mine find a roommate since i’ll be breaking our lease for next year. idk if this is helpful at all for you but it’s how i’m going about it

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Anonymous 22h

sign on with the new apartment. say nothing until its confirmed slowly pack ur shit up slowly stop spending the night. when ur moved out let him know that he needs to find somewhere to live

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 23h

once i have a place im gonna tell him and ive been working on finding another place asap rn

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 21h

such a dickhead move

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 21h

what would you suggest? idk man a lot of women who try to separate after living together are often sabotaged or harmed.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 19h

My mom got stalked harassed assaulted bc she tried to break up amd move out in his face. Ghost men.

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