Ok so
He’ll ask “can I __ you” and I’ll say “no I’m really tired” or something similar
But then he rants and complains at me afterwards
So why are u even asking if ur just gonna act like an asshole to guilt me into it even if I say no
No it’s 1) disregarding consent and 2) emotionally coercive. That’s a tactic meant to pressure or punish you for having boundaries, and it leads to u giving in just to stop the negative behavior. That’s not real consent; it’s coerced compliance.
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Personally the moment I notice a man doesn’t understand that no means no, I gotta go. If he’s doing this this early on, I wouldn’t want to imagine what he’s capable of down the line…