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is it a red flag that my bf and i (college aged) have been together almost 6 months and he still has never let me go to his apartment. cause his roomates are “weird”??
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Anonymous 3w

what kind of guy is ur bf

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Anonymous 3w

yes but also i’d see what he means by “weird”

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Anonymous 3w

will last time I dated somebody like that, they had a live in gf of 3 years

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

i think just like awkward guys yk. he also says it’s because his apartment is a “pig sty”

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

ok def a red flag. if it was a situation like his roommates were shady towards women and he was literally stuck in a lease id understand a bit more but just bc they’re awkward??? boy bye

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

My brothers college apartment literally had black mold in the toilet and he still brought my sister in law over (she’s reformed him now) but idk I feel like he could just clean if he really wanted you over

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

they’re apparently like awkward guys who play dnd and stuff

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

the thing is he keeps saying he’ll clean it but then never does😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

def not a valid reason to not have you over. sounds like he never quit being a middle school bully to me

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3w

wdym 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

the others are dnd guys, so what is he like

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3w

i mean i think he’s pretty normal guy?? 😭 they were just guys from his hs i guess and he got stuck in a lease with them because he had no one else to live with

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

i’ve also mentioned to him that i think it’s weird and he says he agrees with me but then does nothing to fix it so im like wtf??

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