is it a red flag that my bf and i (college aged) have been together almost 6 months and he still has never let me go to his apartment. cause his roomates are “weird”??
will last time I dated somebody like that, they had a live in gf of 3 years
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Anonymous#13w
i think just like awkward guys yk. he also says it’s because his apartment is a “pig sty”
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AnonymousOP3w
ok def a red flag. if it was a situation like his roommates were shady towards women and he was literally stuck in a lease id understand a bit more but just bc they’re awkward??? boy bye
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AnonymousOP3w
My brothers college apartment literally had black mold in the toilet and he still brought my sister in law over (she’s reformed him now) but idk I feel like he could just clean if he really wanted you over
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Anonymous#13w
they’re apparently like awkward guys who play dnd and stuff
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Anonymous#23w
the thing is he keeps saying he’ll clean it but then never does😭
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AnonymousOP3w
def not a valid reason to not have you over. sounds like he never quit being a middle school bully to me
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Anonymous#33w
wdym 😭
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AnonymousOP3w
the others are dnd guys, so what is he like
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Anonymous#33w
i mean i think he’s pretty normal guy?? 😭 they were just guys from his hs i guess and he got stuck in a lease with them because he had no one else to live with
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Anonymous#13w
i’ve also mentioned to him that i think it’s weird and he says he agrees with me but then does nothing to fix it so im like wtf??