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I would never call my “besties” fat or obese. wtf is wrong with you op
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Anonymous 7w

About to drive for an hour so imma put this in the comments in case they delete the post while I’m out

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Anonymous 7w

#2 Idc if it’s relevant or not. I do not wanna have this discussion under my post

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Anonymous 7w

I dont think she has MENTALLY recovered from her ed yet.. not excusing the behavior but they always find ways to belittle others for being at a healthy weight. That’s why im constantly ghosted by these anorexic sorority girls for not wanting to join their cult and not worrying as much to their degree about calories

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Anonymous 7w

I wish ppl would stop using the word obese, it’s so dehumanizing

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Anonymous 7w

What was the post?

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 7w

It’s already in the comments

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7w

You can make your own post about it but idc nor do i gaf

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 7w

As a fat girl in a sorority it’s not really looked at bad or anything, you just gotta find the right one

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 7w

I would like to clarify a few things. I personally don’t like to view people as “fat” so I just consider them extra pillowed or cushioned. Imagine you’re falling off a sky scraper in a video game but you’re protected with extra cushion. I hate that it’s seen as a “bad” thing when it’s cute on so many people! I hope this doesn’t come off as rude!!!

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 7w

But about the sorority part, I personally feel like it’s the more competitive sororities like AXO that are extremely judgmental about damn near everything!!

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 7w

Obese is considered the more polite term vs fat. I think the word obese only became more dehumanizing when people started making fun of people’s weight issues. It got worse when the internet became a thing…

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 7w

Nah we prefer fat. Fat’s not a bad word unless it’s used in a demeaning way

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 7w

Many people made it a bad word bc they use it in such insulting ways

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 7w

That’s super fair, also on the fat part, there are benefits to it like such as you mentioned, but the big thing is i would like to be healthier

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 7w

You can be a 600 pound adult and be much healthier than a 120 pound adult. Just depends on current lifestyle choices

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 7w

I mean, I don’t think I’ve ever heard of anyone at 600 lbs that is even healthy enough to be mobile, granted both ends of the spectrum can be bad but there are lots of diseases you’re at a much higher risk for when there’s excessive fat on the body, but yes someone could be an “ideal” weight and still be very unhealthy

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 6w

No, obese is 1000% worse and fat isn’t even bad. Ur ‘pillowy’ stance is weird

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 6w

Fr like chub isn’t protective armor. I think I’d feel weird if a stranger called me pillowed or cushioned.

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 6w

Honestly, coupled with the implication that I’d be less hurt if I fell off a skyscraper, I’d probably take it as a threat

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