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Girl Talk 26w
Advice on how to be urself and not get worked up in nerves on a first date? I can’t imagine myself ever being liked by a guy (date is set up by a mutual) and I just have a hard time talking how I would a girl friend to guys, some sort of mental block ig
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Anonymous 26w

just keep reminding yourself that you don’t want him to like a version of you that isn’t really you. if you’re authentic and true to yourself and he’s not interested then that’s a good thing because you’re not wasting his time or your own. statistically speaking there’s someone out there for you and you don’t want to waste your time with someone you have to pretend around

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 26w

Very true, very true. That’s what I always tell myself but for some reason I just want to be the perfect person. But ik I can’t be that for everyone. I think I’m just a ppl pleaser and I need to work on that. But I will take what u said and really try to remind myself, thank u

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