I would say donāt text him for the rest of the night and wait until tomorrow to say, āhey Iām giving you a chance right now to be honest with me and explain what youāre feeling and why youāve been behaving like this.ā If he ignores you or keeps being defensive rather than just communicating, DUMP HIM
oh thatās because he doesnāt WANT to make you a priority. heās warning you now. believe me iāve been trapped in relationships like this and you do not want it. it will never be good and you will always feel sad and it will absolutely tear down your self esteem. pls end it now and find someone who actually wants to be an active participant in a relationship<3
Heās been gone on 2 different retreats for the last 6 days (maybe talked to him for an hour over the whole 6 days) which I get it cause he was on retreat but when he got home today he took a 3 hour nap then went out with the boys he was on the retreat with and then got home from that and ignored me for another 2 hours so I asked him if he even still wanted to be together because I thought heād want to actually talk to me since we hadnāt in almost a week