Anonymous #3 7w

it genuinely triggers internal rage in me. i don’t have whatever fuck ass “maternal instinct” society claims we have

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Anonymous #6 7w

Not that everyone is gonna change their mind I’m just a little salty they were right for me lol

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Anonymous #1 7w

Literally! My mom says “it’s when they’re your own, I don’t like anyone else’s kids” like maybe, but I still know I don’t want one or the expenses that come with it

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Anonymous #1 7w

My mom is what made me post this. The idea of being pregnant alone makes me want to tear my skin off and I can barely care for myself so…

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Anonymous #10 7w

Wait fr. I’m not even married yet and they’re on me about this but also I’m not “allowed” to have kids until after marriage??

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Anonymous #6 7w

Me asf with my last ex, but then we had a nasty break up and I’ll be damned if I give any man a child now

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Anonymous #11 7w

Or a man

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Anonymous #7 7w

adopt

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Anonymous #14 7w

yeah that’s what i was planning on doing, been wanting to adopt since i was little!!

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Anonymous #7 7w

love that! i feel the same way- if i’m ever at the point where i would want kids i would adopt

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Anonymous #9 7w

Speaking as a voice of experience, this is absolutely true.

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Anonymous #12 7w

You’re so right

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Anonymous #6 7w

THIS! Hahaha. I got so much shit for it

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Anonymous #17 7w

and why does not wanting kids make us selfish?? Bc men can not want kids and it’s no big deal, but if we choose not to want kids it’s some cardinal sin

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Anonymous dumplin 7w

Girl I’m trying to figure out if I can sell my eggs or if that’d make me distantly responsible for a child

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Anonymous #9 7w

No one regrets having kids bro 😭

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You are very self important

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Anonymous #25 7w

https://www.reddit.com/r/regretfulparents/s/1kf2ryfOYa

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Anonymous dumplin 7w

71.2K visitors and 1.6K contributions per week btw

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Anonymous #25 7w

RATIO with a source💔🫤

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Anonymous #30 7w

Read the room

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Anonymous #31 7w

hey so not every woman is meant to be a mother and even if she wants to be and is one, she’s so much more than than that. we’re people too, our happiness, wants, and needs are important. were not baby making machines, we’re human

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Anonymous #30 7w

capability ≠ purpose

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Anonymous #30 7w

https://www.yahoo.com/lifestyle/family-relationships/article/they-dont-have-kids-and-they-dont-want-them-nearly-40-of-young-women-plan-to-stay-child-free-040100596.html Posted in May of this year. Also a similar article stating the same information on www.census.gov

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Anonymous #31 7w

Bro… this entire thread is women saying how they DON’T want to be mothers…. Talking about how they have NO PLANS to procreate…. You don’t gotta worry about us procreating 🫩

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Anonymous #7 7w

No I totally get it, it would suck if you were my mom. You would be a terrible mother because of your self centered worldview. I encourage you to be a 60 year old cat Karen, it’s what you were meant to do 👍

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Anonymous #31 7w

goated response!

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Anonymous #31 7w

actually no, i’d be a great mother if i decided to have kids because i’d show them that there’s more to life than living up to societal expectations and that their wellbeing and happiness matters. however, if you DECIDE to have kids i really hope they’re able to get unconditional love from someone in their life bc i wouldn’t want them to end up with sad and pathetic views like you.

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Anonymous #25 7w

it is just as virtuous to have kids than it is to not have kids.

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Anonymous #25 7w

i am and proud fuck them kids

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we don’t even owe them that explanation it’s nobody’s business why we don’t have them and we need to be meaner and more selfish tbh

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Anonymous #35 7w

And people who try to change minds of people who don’t want children never consider how damaging and harmful it is for a child to have a parent that never truly wanted kids in the first place.

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Anonymous #31 7w

This has to be a lonely man

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Anonymous #30 7w

You’re weird asf

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Anonymous #30 7w

Yeah no

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Anonymous #6 7w

are humans really meant to do anything truly?

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Anonymous #30 7w

give me ONE good reason to have a child

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Anonymous #1 7w

Idk i think the beauty of raising a child is kinda ineffable personally but it should be entirely up to you.

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Anonymous #34 7w

see it sounds nice but at the end of the day they’re going to be corporate slaves like the rest of us

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Anonymous #1 7w

you direct your anger at the wrong things. it comes down to people having less hope for the future. this is what they want. they want you to give up. lose hope. we most continue fighting. unite with our fellow man. it’s our duty!

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Anonymous blueberryjpg 7w

capability is the biggest indication of purpose. if we weren’t supposed to reproduce then why can we?

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Anonymous #34 7w

so you live your life without meaning? doesn’t sound like a life worth living. maybe if you had a kid you would have a purpose

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Anonymous #30 7w

i am more than capable of murdering than person sitting next to me, should i?

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Anonymous #30 7w

i don’t think life really has any inherit meaning. we exist as humans and that is okay. while we are here we can still love, dance, enjoy the arts and all the other things. do not box your purpose into one single binary thing. exist and relish all aspects of life

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its not “a child” its your child.

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Anonymous #30 7w

and it shoukd be up to the individual whether they want to reproduce or not. you are not a better person for baring children.

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Anonymous #34 7w

i’m not boxing my entire life into having kids and raising them. purpose as humans is to live, love, and raise next generations of humans

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Anonymous #30 7w

of course yes when you speak as humanity as a whole we should probably continue the human race, but one person not having children is okay. there will always be more people willing to take your place. people always gonna be fuckin man.

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it is you’re right, but sacrifice has purpose

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Anonymous #34 7w

well if ppl start thinking like you do then who will reproduce? lol i dont think you should have kids anyways

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Anonymous #34 7w

you’re right and funny, lol

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Anonymous #34 7w

if they wanted us to give up and lose hope they wouldn’t be pushing for more births and teen pregnancies

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Anonymous #2 7w

the room has a bunch of stupid ppl 😔

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what if ganghis khan thought like you did?

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who going to take care of you when you old and can’t wipe your own butt?

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Anonymous #30 7w

The nursing home???? Even if I had kids I wouldn’t make them do that

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Anonymous #30 7w

a nurse. your kids don’t watch you around the clock and wipe your ass for you, they work😹

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that’s not nice, he would care about what you’re saying if he was alive 😔

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you just a bad kid

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Anonymous #1 7w

you got money for a nurse?

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most children don’t even visit their parents tbfh. how you raise them doesn’t mean shit

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yea they move but they also will be the ones paying for you to get your butt wiped

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Anonymous #30 7w

You ever heard of tax dollars? Of retirement funds..

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Anonymous #1 7w

maybe most ppl are like you. we need to fix their thinking. let’s start with you

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nah i’ll stick around a lil longer. need to plant my seed yk

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Anonymous #30 7w

So with your logic that all women should be mothers we end up with “mothers” like Casey Anthony… so you don’t care if the children are murdered by regretful mothers, you just care that women “fulfill their purpose on earth” by having children. Nice

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Anonymous #30 7w

i will since i won’t be wasting the money to care for some fukkk ass kids

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Anonymous #30 7w

good luck i’m getting my tubes ripped out as soon as conveniently possible

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Anonymous #1 7w

sounds painful, having a kid is easier

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Anonymous #30 7w

0/10 ragebait

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Anonymous #1 7w

dang, now i leave 😞

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Anonymous #30 7w

get a real job

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Anonymous #1 7w

i do, i’m a full time mother

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Anonymous #30 7w

If you’re only purpose is being a mother that’s a pathetic life

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Anonymous #30 7w

LMFAOOOOO

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Anonymous tootcanal 7w

Not at all. You basically give them up like it’s property. You sell it and it’s no longer yours at all. Donors are supposed to be anonymous usually and information about you is not supposed to be shared with parents nor the child created with the eggs. No responsibility whatsoever, just a donation with giving up rights and ownership of them and writing it off

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Anonymous #25 7w

I wish I was this sheltered

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Anonymous #31 7w

is this supposed to offend us?

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gay people hotter and better then u lil man

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Anonymous #31 7w

this current generation is already scared from how low the quality of living is unless you’re a millionaire. we’re selfless for not creating a new generation that will have to work until they die

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Anonymous #1 7w

scarred*

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Maybe your parents. Or their parents and so on. There's really nothing to compare to family. Not money, corporate life , emptiness, I'll grow a family!

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Anonymous #40 6w

I see. So according to you Mother Theresa, Rosa Parks, Harper Lee, Julia Child, Sally Ride, Frida Kahlo, and Katherine Hepburn had nothing to show for their lives. And these are just names of women you’d recognize. There are millions of women doing amazing incredible things in this world, creating a better world and better lives for themselves and others - and doing it without having kids. Your choice is your choice. Let others live their own choices. Stop passing judgment on others.

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Anonymous #15 6w

everyone you listed had kids 😭 do your research

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Anonymous #30 6w

Are you a fucking idiot? None of these women had children.

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