
“i just want them to care” you therapist DOES care. if they didn’t care about their patient’s mental health they’d be a shitty therapist & you should seek a new one. but most of these men assume that because they don’t care about non-romantic partner’s feelings that no one else does either. a topic they should probably discuss WITH A THERAPIST.
Therapy is amazing!!! For any issue or even just to talk without a lot of pressing concerns at times! A bad therapist does not mean therapy does not work. I’ve had numerous therapists until I settled on one that actually listened the way I needed to and challenges me to catch myself in my spirals and practise learned techniques. Those who need therapy most often don’t seek it…