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I’ve had a situationship for like a year but we are also bestfriends, in the beginning before we did anything he asked my body count and I told him, since then it’s grown a bit but I know he would be upset if he found out this is driving me insane but I
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Anonymous 10w

i think you don’t need to tell him if you guys have no expectation of exclusivity. if he asks again then sure, but if the understanding is that you’re still both single then it’s ok

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Anonymous 10w

this is why I don’t do situationships. blur and confusion

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Anonymous 10w

Don’t want to start anything. Technically we were and still are just friends but i feel like i cheated on him even tho I didn’t and i know it would break him if he knew..?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 10w

but if you know he doesn’t want you seeing other people then that’s a conversation you should have

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 10w

That’s kinda how I feel it’s just eating at me and I’m afraid if we do start dating I’m going to feel awful

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

nothing to feel awful about! if you’re single you’re single and you didn’t do anything wrong. does he think you’re exclusive?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 10w

True and I don’t think so we never had a serious conversation about it

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

might be worth asking about. he might not care as much as you think! and if u do end up dating u can tell him then but really he can get upset but doesn’t have much of a case to be mad at you for

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 10w

Thank you

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