
I’m straight and in my head when looking at queer media like “oh look bear x otter that’s cute!” Just simply bc ik that’s like a category of a type. But I’d never call someone or use it when referring to a person directly. It’s just not my place to use it and not everyone is comfortable w that so I just don’t put it in my daily vocabulary. But I have noticed ppl have been using it instead of the F slur.