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my friend has a chronic illness so i understand she can't go and do stuff all the time. But she'll say she's too fatigued to travel with me or do something with me and on the same day or day after, she'll travel hours away with her bf or do stuff with him
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Anonymous 12w

I had a friend who had chronic migraines (I do too). We were supposed to have a sleepover and dye my hair pink, but she canceled bc she had a migraine. Understandable. Then later I find out that she went to one of our other friend’s house any dyed her hair when we were supposed to be. That’s what this reminds me of.

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Anonymous 12w

treat her like a casual the same way she’s treating you lol simple

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Anonymous 12w

i know her bf should take precedent, and i agree with that, but why can she do all this stuff with him and travel everywhere with him, but i ask for one day to hang out and get told she's too fatigued. She's also packing to move and can't hang out with me bc she has to pack but will go travel for a day to get coffee and at a shop hours away. She preaches to not center your life around a man and don't ignore your friends just bc you're dating someone but now she's pretty much doing the same thing

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Anonymous 12w

it just hurts bc i love being her friend and i feel like she wants less and less to do with me

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Anonymous 12w

lmao she's lying to you. cut her off

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 12w

were roommates next year and can't change where we're living 😔

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

just treat her like a roommate then but don't treat her like a friend cuz she isn't one

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 12w

exactly, life if she had stayed home to rest and he came over i'd be fine, but it's the fact that she can't go sit in a pool with me but can go hike at a park with him

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