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I been with my bf for 7 years and I hate saying this bc I know he feels the complete opposite but I feel like we both just aren’t the same anymore and need someone else. I love him and I want it to be him but the older we get the less I adore him.
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Anonymous 4w

i think you need to talk to him about how you’re feeling. and not necessarily as the “this is it we’re breaking up” talk but just like hey this is how i feel in the relationship. he deserves to know

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Anonymous 4w

Like I want it so badly to be him but idk if I’m inlove with him anymore.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

I agree, bc I want change and I have love for him and it’s just been a while since I’ve felt a spark but he gets mad when I bring it up bc it hurts him that he loves me so much but I don’t feel the same. I want to feel the same but it feels forceful idk.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

honestly relationships go through that eb and flow, especially when it’s been a long time together. love isn’t always a feeling, sometimes it’s a choice. and it sounds like you’re choosing to stay because you want to. maybe you guys just need to eh to reignite the honeymoon phase, go on silly dates, flirt with each other, try new things

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