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an important thing to remember here is that a lot of couples don’t form in the traditional manner. A lot of people now get references or use dating apps, where there's no real "approach" because both you and him know where this is headed
I am noticing that men are not approaching as much as they used to a good solution is that men and women should approach the same amount. The idea that men approach “first” is outdated. If you like a guy, tell him. Don’t wait for him to approach first
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Anonymous 1d

Honestly love this idea that men aren’t approaching women and should just let women approach them, like maybe more women could go out in peace then 🙏

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Anonymous 1d

Great well I gave some advice. Women can also approach men instead of waiting for men to approach first. What you have written doesn’t change tha

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

Sure but it means we will have to be braver and make the first move. I’m encouraging being brave

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

Girl I bagged my bf by making the first move im true to this NOT new to this

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

Great! Idk who downvoted my comment then lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

Lowk prolly cause you didn’t finish writing it girl 😭 but also I think your initial post has a weird intro, I read more of it and I understand wanting the challenge the gender norm and saying that if shouldn’t be on one gender to approach another, but the like post itself and not subsequent comments jsut reads very weirdly

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

My post isn’t even wrong and I’m not taking anything back

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 21h

I never said that, just that your intro into the topic reads a little clumsily and it’s hard to understand what you actual point, which you clarify in the comments, is

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