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sometimes i think im too woke, like in a weird way, then i remember people say shit like “a 20 year old dating a 23 year old is so inappropriate, like the age gap is too big” with their whole chest
10 upvotes, 10 comments. Yik Yak image post by Anonymous in Girl Talk. "sometimes i think im too woke, like in a weird way, then i remember people say shit like “a 20 year old dating a 23 year old is so inappropriate, like the age gap is too big” with their whole chest"
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Anonymous 10w

i’m 23 and personally wouldn’t date a 20 year old but the age gap isn’t bad but like 18 and 22-23 is a lil weird

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Anonymous 10w

“Because the 23 year old can legally drink and go to bars and the 20 year old can’t!” Why are you centering your life around alcohol?

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Anonymous 10w

i think that is a weird age gap though bc developmentally and in life ur in such diff stages. i would question why a 23 is dating a 20 year old.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 10w

yea no i can get being uncomfy with an 18 year old and 23 year old, but canceling a 23 year old who is dating a 20 year old is soo crazy to me

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 10w

tea

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 10w

Yeah but that has less to do with the gap and more to do with where they are in life. When it’s 20 and 23, I think a lot of people see that as weird because one of them is old enough to drink and one isn’t and the older one has probably been independent for longer. If it’s 40 and 43… I’ve never met anyone with an issue with a 3 year gap

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 10w

yeah that’s exactly what i said! it’s never abt the 3 years difference it’s abt where you are in life

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 10w

Oh ok I think maybe I misread your comment the first time. Yeah it’s 100% just where you are in life!

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 10w

idk i guess it’s different depending on the person, bcuz im 21, i dated a guy when we were both 20 and he acted like a high school boy (didn’t last long) but im currently dating a 24 year old, and we’re so in sync with who we are and what we want. like maturity is at the same level. idk it’s cool to hear everyone’s different opinions on this ig🤷‍♀️

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 10w

np!

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