Girl Talk on Yik Yak | how do i tell my bf that im not interested in anything sexual with HIM. like i like having sex but i just get creeped out every time i think of me and him doing the do and get so turned off when he sends me freaky reels..

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Girl Talk 4d

how do i tell my bf that im not interested in anything sexual with HIM. like i like having sex but i just get creeped out every time i think of me and him doing the do and get so turned off when he sends me freaky reels..

Anonymous 4d

You don’t, that’s when you break up with him.

Anonymous 4d

Are you perhaps asexual?

Anonymous 4d

My guess is it’s because you have deeper feelings for him that go beyond sexual so that part will just take longer, if that makes sense. I can relate to this situation

Anonymous 4d

do you not like him

Anonymous 4d

Hey boo, honestly I used to feel the same way with my boyfriend for a long time. My ex was all about sex nonstop, and I’m just not a super sexual person. With my boyfriend now, I had to figure out a middle ground that actually works for us. But in order for things to get better, plz talk to him

Anonymous

#2 4d

like you don’t sound compatible anymore 😭 i think it’s time to uh break up

Anonymous

#2 4d

i really do and that’s the issue maybe? i feel like i like him so much that sex isn’t on my mind like at all and recently that’s all he’s been hinting at

Anonymous

#3 4d

she said she likes having sex (i know you can still have sexual desires while being asexual) but the thought have sex with him turns her off. that doesn’t sound like asexual but more so she’s not attracted to him anymore.

Anonymous

#3 4d

i was honestly thinking this because the idea of sex in it’s entirety has been disgusting to me recently.. i’ll look into this more

Anonymous

OP 4d

have you had sex with him before

Anonymous

#2 4d

omg plssss 💔💔💔💔

Anonymous

#2 4d

no, we’ve never done anything sexual but he knows that i’ve had a “colorful” past 😭🙏🏾

Anonymous

OP 4d

how long yall been dating

Anonymous

OP 4d

It’s rough dating as and asexual ngl but there’s still hope:,)

Anonymous

#2 4d

like physically i am (he’s tall, darkskin, and handsome) but his personality just throws me off

Anonymous

#2 4d

11 months

Anonymous

OP 4d

Physical attraction isn’t the same as sexual attraction. But yeah, personality could play a role in how one experiences attraction I’m sure

Anonymous

#3 4d

i could already imagine, and especially because a lot of guys that i’ve encountered literally are only looking for a relationship with sex and i don’t want to put out JUST to keep a relationship afloat 💔

Anonymous

#3 4d

thank you so much for the clarity, usually i’m sexually attracted to the people i find physically attractive but i see how it’s not interchangeable

Anonymous

OP 4d

…Same. I’d rather kms or just stay single💔

Anonymous

#1 4d

omgggg 🥲🥲🥲🥲🥲

Anonymous

OP 4d

Ahh that makes sense

Anonymous

#3 4d

these might be my only options 😔

Anonymous

OP 4d

Hopefully not😭 Hopefully we both will find our person at the right time 🤞🏻

Anonymous

#4 4d

idk how to, that’s my issue. i feel like whenever i talk it’s just a back burner conversation and he doesn’t actually care about what i have to say. i’m afraid if i shut him down we’re gonna breakup and that may be for the better but i cant see myself being single

Anonymous

OP 4d

Love never feel what you have to say is not important- if he doesn’t value your feelings or what you have to say as a whole, then he doesn’t care for you. I used to be scared to be single too until I had to after my ex. What really got me through it is reminding myself that at the end of the day you only truly have yourself and you can’t physically be there for others until you’re there for you. Plus in reality your never really alone (I promise)