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maybe it’s just me but i feel like it’s weird to constantly ask your partner for money or like expecting them to pay for things like your nails or lashes. If they want to then yeah! but expecting them to is odd to me
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Anonymous 10w

if he makes a lot more money than me i think i would expect it. i mean as long as we live under a patriarchy im gonna take advantage of the few things that i have

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Anonymous 10w

It gives entitled but i get called a pick me for saying that

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 10w

I mean, each relationship is different, and maybe it’s more of what I’m comfortable with asking for and what I’m not comfortable with asking for, I’m not shaming anyone that does expect their partner to do this or to pay for those things

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 10w

like I know there are some guys who love doing that kind of thing and paying for those things but I feel like it’s odd to expect it. I just find myself wondering if that’s like a dealbreaker for some people. Especially cause like I know when I get my nails done sometimes it cost like $100. That’s a lot of money.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 10w

I guess it also does depend on income cause you’re right you know if they do make a lot of money maybe that’s something they’re able to do, but I feel like there are some people out there that expect their partner to do that when they’re barely making enough to pay their own bills

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