what’s crazy is i knew and i stayed. he was unable to feel guilt and was self aware of that. so he’d hurt me and not change and nothing prevented him from doing it again (which he would). his live was greedy and he lived in excess with sx/drvgs/alc bc it was “fun”. and he chose to leave for another girl
it’s not really more of choose, it’s a disorder. some feel nothing and don’t see an issue wrong with it and don’t care to understand or some feel nothing and know it’s a morally wrong thing even if they themselves don’t feel the same way. some feel, but only for themselves and slightly for others. it all depends tbh, i think that’s why it’s outdated. sociopath is still used today i know, but not for a disorder but for tendencies, at least my friend who’s getting his masters in psych rn said.